A Kids' Guide to Manners

Synopsis

Minding your manners is a blast with these etiquette lessons for kids ages 7 to 12

Today's kids need a fresh approach to manners that resonates with them. A Kids' Guide to Manners goes beyond saying "please" and "thank you" with fun, practical lessons that bring manners into the modern world.

From meeting new people to being a courteous guest to texting a group of friends, kids will have fun as they learn to use manners in a way that will make their lives easier and more enjoyable. With 50 essential manners, plus interactive quizzes, entertaining examples, and at-home practice exercises, A Kids' Guide to Manners teaches kids where, when, and how to use manners as they relate to everyday life.

With this true manners how-to guide kids will:

• Build good communication skills that will make it easy to get along with others, such as constructive ways to express emotions to the power of writing a thank you note.
• Feel confident in new situations by knowing what to do and say when meeting new people, dining in a more formal environment, or dealing with conflict and gossip.
• Learn proper tech etiquette that represents their best self over text, email, social media, as well as tips for knowing when it is or isn't appropriate to be using technology.

With A Kids' Guide to Manners, both boys and girls will understand why manners matter and feel better than ever showing off their new social skills to everyone they know!

Summary

Chapter 1: What are Manners?

In the first chapter of “A Kids’ Guide to Manners”, the book explains what manners are and why they are important. Manners are the way we behave towards others, such as saying “please” and “thank you”, being polite and showing consideration for others.

Real Example: Lily was having a playdate with her friend, Sarah. Sarah brought some cookies to share with Lily. Before eating, Lily remembered to say “please” and “thank you” to Sarah for sharing her cookies. This shows that Lily has good manners and is appreciative of Sarah’s gesture.

Chapter 2: The Magic Words

In this chapter, the book focuses on teaching children the importance of using “magic words” such as “please”, “thank you”, “excuse me” and “sorry”. These words have the power to make people feel good and show that we care about their feelings.

Real Example: Max accidentally bumped into his little sister’s dollhouse and it broke. He immediately said “sorry” and helped his sister to fix it. By using the magic word, Max showed that he was aware of his mistake and wanted to make it right.

Chapter 3: Table Manners

Table manners are essential when eating with others, whether it’s at home or in a restaurant. The book explains the basics of table manners, such as chewing with your mouth closed, saying “please pass” instead of reaching over someone, and using utensils properly.

Real Example: The Smith family went to a fancy restaurant for a celebratory dinner. When their food arrived, the children noticed that there were no utensils on the table. Instead of reaching for their food with their hands, they politely asked their parents to pass them the utensils. This showed that they had good table manners even in a new and formal setting.

Chapter 4: Phone and Tech Manners

In today’s digital world, it’s important to have good phone and tech manners. This includes not using your phone at the dinner table or in a movie theater, not sending mean messages online, and respecting people’s privacy.

Real Example: Lily received a text from her classmate asking for answers to a homework assignment. Instead of immediately sending the answers, Lily asked her teacher for permission to share them. This showed that Lily had good phone etiquette and understood the importance of respecting academic integrity.

Chapter 5: Public Place Manners

When in public places like the library, park, or museum, it’s important to be aware of your surroundings and practice good manners. This includes using your indoor voice, not running or being rough, and being considerate of others who are trying to enjoy the space.

Real Example: On her school field trip to the zoo, Emma noticed that there were signs asking visitors to not tap on the glass of the animal enclosures. When her friend started tapping on the glass of the lion exhibit, Emma reminded her that it was not allowed and it could disturb the animals. This showed that Emma had good manners and was respectful of the rules of the zoo.

Chapter 6: Good Sport Manners

Being a good sport means being respectful and sportsmanlike when playing games or participating in sports. This includes congratulating the winner, not cheating, and playing fair.

Real Example: During a game of soccer, the opposing team scored a goal and Max’s team lost the game. Instead of getting upset and blaming his teammates, Max shook hands with the other team and congratulated them on their win. This showed that Max had good sportsmanship and was gracious in defeat.

Chapter 7: Manners as a Friend

The final chapter of the book focuses on manners in friendships. This includes being caring and supportive, apologizing when we make a mistake, and respecting other people’s feelings and boundaries.

Real Example: Lily and Sarah got into an argument over who got to play with a new toy first. Lily realized that she was being selfish and hurting Sarah’s feelings. She apologized and suggested that they take turns playing with the toy. This showed that Lily valued her friendship with Sarah and was willing to compromise to make things right.

In conclusion, “A Kids’ Guide to Manners” provides real-life examples of how children can practice good manners in different situations. By understanding the importance of manners and incorporating them into their daily interactions, children can become kind, considerate, and respectful individuals.